It might not feel like you're in such a good place when it comes to love as the month begins, but by the end of November, you will absolutely have a different tone. Venus will remain napping in your 12th House of Vulnerability until November 16. This is causing all sorts of anxiety-provoked responses from you about matters of the heart. You might feel quite triggered and insecure, whether you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between.
You might want very much to have an equal, balanced partnership with someone, but one of you seems to be holding back. Is it you? Perhaps you're questioning the validity of the love you feel. Discovering what you truly feel about someone and about where your love truly lies will be a major theme in November. You are having a difficult time navigating this and coming to elucidation, but you will slowly realize that you've known the answer all along after November 16. You just weren't ready to see it.
A New Moon in your sign on November 7 will signal that you're ready to take the plunge and go in a new, more intense direction in your life. You want a partner who isn't afraid to travel to the depths and heights of life with you. Happily, it looks as though you can have it all -- just as soon as you start allowing it to happen.